My positive pregnancy story
With so many books, websites and people talking about their negative experiences with pregnancy, I thought I should put my positive story out there.
I am 33 years old and my husband and I are expecting our first child, a girl in February. I am 24 weeks along and so far, so good! I have been feeling great, and living my life very normally! I have a loving and supportive husband who is so excited about our baby, a great family, and a wonderful OBGYN and Nurse Midwife.
My husband and I like to read our pregnancy books together each night. We brainstorm about baby names all the time and he is, for the first time ever, enthusiastic about shopping! I have really enjoyed getting to know this side of him. He is wonderful and I know he will be the best Dad to our little girl!
My parents have never been the type to put pressure on us to have a child so they could be grandparents. But now that we have a baby on the way, they are so excited and looking forward to spoiling our baby girl! How nice to see them so happy!
I see my OBGYN and Nurse Midwife alternately because I feel I am being exposed equally to the clinical aspects of the pregnancy, and the emotional aspects. I highly recommend to your website visitors that they visit a medical team like this. It is working out great for us! I never feel overloaded with information. They really take everything one step at a time. I leave each appointment knowing that I have all of the information I need to carry me through to the next step, so I never feel overwhelmed. I truly believe in the idea that too much information is not necessarily a good thing.
With my pregnancy, I feel something different every day, be it an emotional feeling or a physical sensation. Rather than freaking out and searching the internet for causes for these feelings, I relax and remind myself that my body is making major changes to help my baby grow! Of course, on the rare occasions I have felt something that really concerned me, I did not hesitate to call my doctor, even if it was after hours. But my point is, I am not treating my pregnancy like it is an illness. It is quite the opposite!
I feel so happy about this incredible experience I am going through and I want to make the most out of it! Believe me, I was worried about the whole pregnancy experience and never thought I would be this excited about having a child. Who knows, by the time I am in the home stretch, I may be so uncomfortable, I may think I was crazy for being in "la la land" writing this happy letter...but I do not want to allow myself to dread what is ahead! This is too special a time and there are so many people who wish they could be so fortunate to be able to bear a child. My positive outlook on my pregnancy is a tribute to those women who are having trouble conceiving or cannot conceive. So, if you are pregnant and reading this, I wish for you a positive experience and a lot of fun during these 9 months!!!!
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